Wednesday, February 25, 2009

The Darker Side of Love

Love is a concept that is often presented as a one-dimensional emotion that we associate with ultimate goodness. It is a word used to describe deep emotional bonds shared between individuals, and serves as a representation of many emotions in their most amplified form. There are many stages and various meanings that have come to define love, but all seem to reflect a positive theme of personal happiness. What some fail to recognize or acknowledge is the idea that love has a dark side, which counteracts the traditional take on the emotion itself. I feel that Othello introduces this dark side of love to its audience. The characters see how love can bring out jealousy and a need for revenge. This is portrayed in the relationship between Othello and Desdemona -- which ultimately presents love as a means to destruction and death.
The relationship between Desdemona and Othello was conflicted from the very beginning. This was the case because no one could understand or accept the mutual love that was shared between them. Iago knows how strong their love for each other is, and he uses this as his means to seek revenge on Othello. He does this by breaking the mutual trust that is initially present in their relationship. Although the relationship between Cassio and Desdemona is honest, the fear of her dishonesty consumes Othello's mind and leads him to do things that are completely out of character -- things he would never see himself capable of doing in a right frame of mind.
The thought of love often clouds our ability to think logically in the midst of our everyday lives. So although love is often associated with the positive aspects of life, including the things that we desire most, it can lead to the fear of loss and deception. As Othello has presented to us, love can lead to destruction in the sense that it is vulnerable and easily influenced by outside forces present in the world. Although love in its purest form is beautiful and innocent, the evil that is found in the natural world has a tendency to come between that love and to taint it to the point of no return. In reading the play, we uncover and expose the dark side of love, watching Othello subject himself to the influence of the outside world and allowing evil to overcome his heart and destroy his sincere love for Desdemona.

2 comments:

  1. I was thinking about this the entire time I was reading the play. You really hit the nail on the head with this entry! It seems that love really can consume us, especially when it comes to jealousy.

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  2. Interesting ideas here (and I'm glad you found a space for them!). I think, too, the play asks us to think about the different influences/reasons a person falls in love. Desdemona, for example, says she has a deep fondness for Othello's stories...is she falling in love with the story of the man?

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